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		<title>Ur Doing it Wrong!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 11:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>One News Now (of Homosexual eases into 100 final at Olympic trials fame) still has an anti-gay streak (in the sense that a one-trick pony has a one-trick streak). But they haven&#8217;t gotten much better at it. Leading their denunciation (link disabled due to malware at ONN &#8211; URL is http://www.onenewsnow.com/Culture/Default.aspx?id=1061262 if you feel lucky) of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One News Now (of <a href="http://www.pamshouseblend.com/showDiary.do?diaryId=5949">Homosexual eases into 100 final at Olympic trials</a> fame</a>) still has an anti-gay streak (in the sense that a one-trick pony has a one-trick streak). But they haven&#8217;t gotten much better at it. Leading their <a href="">denunciation</a> (link disabled due to malware at ONN &#8211; URL is http://www.onenewsnow.com/Culture/Default.aspx?id=1061262 if you feel lucky) of Presidential acknowledgement of non-traditional families is this photo&#8230;<br />
<center><a href="http://tete-tete-tete.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Gay-Family.jpg"><img src="http://tete-tete-tete.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Gay-Family.jpg" alt="&quot;Gay Family&quot; from One News Now" title="&quot;Gay Family&quot; from One News Now" width="125" height="116" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3083" /></a></center><br />
&#8230; of a happy, smiling family that includes two smiling gay dads and two smiling kids being loved by them.  Titled &#8220;Gay Family&#8221;. Aren&#8217;t you supposed to give them horns and hooked noses? </p>
<p>Wildmon complains that people shouldn&#8217;t put the &#8220;twisted sexual desires&#8221; of adults ahead of the welfare of children. If he said twisted sexual <em>taboos</em> instead of desires, then he would be uttering the very condemnation of his little clan of busybodies that they most need to hear. </p>
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		<title>Draw Wrong Mohammed Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 17:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>smijer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I screwed up. I thought it was Draw Mohammed Bouyeri Day. So, this is what I toiled away for:</p>
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<p>So&#8230; anyway&#8230; The best compilation is at Friendly Atheist.</p>
<p>I began disapproving of the project on the grounds that it&#8217;s wrong to poke millions of people in the eye to express disapproval of a couple hundred asshole extremists.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I screwed up. I thought it was Draw <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mohammed_Bouyeri">Mohammed Bouyeri</a> Day. So, this is what I toiled away for:</p>
<p><a href="http://tete-tete-tete.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Mohammed-Bouyeri.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-3024 alignnone" title="Mohammed Bouyeri as Hitler Pig" src="http://tete-tete-tete.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Mohammed-Bouyeri.jpg" alt="Draw Mohammed Day" width="150" height="132" /></a></p>
<p>So&#8230; anyway&#8230; The best compilation is at <a href="http://friendlyatheist.com/2010/05/20/draw-muhammad-day-a-compilation/#">Friendly Atheist</a>.</p>
<p>I began disapproving of the project on the grounds that it&#8217;s wrong to poke millions of people in the eye to express disapproval of a couple hundred asshole extremists.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been known to criticize the perpetrators of <a href="http://www.crackergate.com/">CrackerGate</a> on similar grounds.</p>
<p>On the other hand&#8230; a number of commentors are right.  This is a freedom of speech and freedom of religion issue.</p>
<p>Furthermore, anyone who is truly saddened or offended by someone outside their own religion violating their religious taboos in a harmless manner would be better off to re-think what&#8217;s worth getting saddened or offended.</p>
<p>What should sadden and offend is the idea that Draw Mohammed Day is done just to sadden and offend people who belong to that religion. To the extent that some of the actors are doing it for that very purpose, I commiserate, and I do not endorse the day.  But to the extent that it is done not to poke at Muslims but rather to poke at extremism and make social commentary about the importance of freedom, the inappropriateness of universalizing a cultural taboo, and the evil of enforcing cultural taboos through violence, I join whole-heartedly.  At least I would have if I hadn&#8217;t already drawn the wrong Mohammed.</p>
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		<title>Fake Weed</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Buck</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I guess this gives new meaning to potpourri</p>
<p>And forty bucks for 3 grams? Holy free-market Batman!</p>
<p>Ain&#8217;t it amazing how much folks are willing to spend in order to hallucinate and puke?</p>


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20100304/sc_livescience/fakeweedrealdrugk2causinghallucinationsinteens">this</a> gives new meaning to <strong>pot</strong>pourri</p>
<p>And forty bucks for 3 grams? Holy free-market Batman!</p>
<p>Ain&#8217;t it amazing how much folks are willing to spend in order to hallucinate and puke?</p>
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		<title>So, Who Would You Drink A Beer With?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 01:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jadarm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was pondering this poetic question all day long today, &#8230;and although my conclusions may not be quite poetic, &#8230;well, they are mine nonetheless.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was pondering this poetic question all day long today, &#8230;and although my conclusions may not be quite poetic, &#8230;well, they are <em>mine</em> nonetheless.</p>
<p>I will not limit the criteria to the living, however morbid some of you might think of drinking beer with a corpse may be, I want to give the question a bit of depth&#8230;as much depth as a question pertaining who you would want to get schnockered with can be.</p>
<p>So here goes&#8230;</p>
<p>You have to pick your top 3!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">First</span></strong><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">:</span></strong> I am <em>not</em> going to choose a politician, &#8230;no, not <strong>Abraham Lincoln</strong> or <strong>George Washington</strong> or anyone like that (although partying it up with <strong>Clinton</strong> might be fun)&#8230;no, I figure, If I want to drink beer and get lied to again I can just get married and indulge myself 365 per for the rest of my natural life.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Second:</span></strong> I will not choose any of my &#8220;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">hero&#8217;s</span>&#8221; from any major professional sports, &#8230;because they are not subject to the same rules and repercussions that you and I are on a daily basis. &#8230;no link needed.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">&#8230;and C</span></strong><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">:</span></strong> I will not needlessly choose &#8220;hottie&#8217;s&#8221; like <strong>Anniston</strong>, <strong>Jolie</strong>, <strong>McAdams</strong>, or my Jack Russell <strong><a href="http://www.myspace.com/canadianmountmedog">Doc</a></strong>! It&#8217;s just shameless and has no place on such a dignified site such as this. (So I will save it for the <em>other</em> site&#8230;hehehe.)</p>
<p>My first pick?</p>
<p>1. <strong>Adam Sandler</strong>: He may not be the funniest guy ever, &#8230;but he seems good enough to me. He appears to know how to have fun, could be wrong tho&#8217;.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Andy Rooney</strong>: Yeah, I know he is an old croon&#8230;but he is still awesome. I love drinking beer with old prejudicial white people&#8230;and he is actually the voice of a generation, whether you want to hear it or not. I will agree with half of what he says, &#8230;and then laugh at the other half, &#8230;should have a helluva good time tho&#8217;.</p>
<p>3. With my last choice I am really wanting to say something like <strong>John Belushi</strong>, &#8230;or <strong>Chris Farley</strong>, &#8230;but I am thinking I may have to go with&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Seth MacFarlane</strong>.</p>
<p>&#8230;but he has to be drinking a beer too&#8230;or two.</p>
<p>Nuff said!</p>
<p>So folks, &#8230;your turn!</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 16:34:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For all his many faults, Obama still does as good a job as anyone at explaining and communicating important ideas.  On the hate crimes law, he makes a helluva lot more sense than the detractors &#8211; not just the silliness about &#8220;they&#8217;re going to round up all the Preachers!&#8221; He doesn&#8217;t address the libertarian argument [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For all his many faults, Obama still does as good a job as anyone at explaining and communicating important ideas.  On the hate crimes law, he makes a helluva lot more sense than the detractors &#8211; not just the silliness about &#8220;they&#8217;re going to round up all the Preachers!&#8221; He doesn&#8217;t address the libertarian argument against hate crimes laws, but the strength of his explanation makes the libertarian argument sound weak by comparison. Well said &#8211; now if he&#8217;ll follow through on repealing Don&#8217;t Ask Don&#8217;t Tell, he&#8217;ll have a couple of much needed plus marks in legacy ledger. Partial remarks:</p>
<blockquote><p>In the most recent year for which we have data, the FBI reported roughly 7,600 hate crimes in this country. Over the past 10 years, there were more than 12,000 reported hate crimes based on sexual orientation alone. And we will never know how many incidents were never reported at all.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s why, through this law, we will strengthen the protections against crimes based on the color of your skin, the faith in your heart, or the place of your birth. We will finally add federal protections against crimes based on gender, disability, gender identity, or sexual orientation. (Applause.) And prosecutors will have new tools to work with states in order to prosecute to the fullest those who would perpetrate such crimes. Because no one in America should ever be afraid to walk down the street holding the hands of the person they love. No one in America should be forced to look over their shoulder because of who they are or because they live with a disability.</p>
<p>At root, this isn&#8217;t just about our laws; this is about who we are as a people. This is about whether we value one another &#8212; whether we embrace our differences, rather than allowing them to become a source of animus. It&#8217;s hard for any of us to imagine the mind-set of someone who would kidnap a young man and beat him to within an inch of his life, tie him to a fence, and leave him for dead. It&#8217;s hard for any of us to imagine the twisted mentality of those who&#8217;d offer a neighbor a ride home, attack him, chain him to the back of a truck, and drag him for miles until he finally died.</p>
<p>But we sense where such cruelty begins: the moment we fail to see in another our common humanity &#8212; the very moment when we fail to recognize in a person the same fears and hopes, the same passions and imperfections, the same dreams that we all share.</p>
<p>We have for centuries strived to live up to our founding ideal, of a nation where all are free and equal and able to pursue their own version of happiness. Through conflict and tumult, through the morass of hatred and prejudice, through periods of division and discord we have endured and grown stronger and fairer and freer. And at every turn, we&#8217;ve made progress not only by changing laws but by changing hearts, by our willingness to walk in another&#8217;s shoes, by our capacity to love and accept even in the face of rage and bigotry.</p>
<p>In April of 1968, just one week after the assassination of Martin Luther King, as our nation mourned in grief and shuddered in anger, President Lyndon Johnson signed landmark civil rights legislation. This was the first time we enshrined into law federal protections against crimes motivated by religious or racial hatred &#8212; the law on which we build today.</p>
<p>As he signed his name, at a difficult moment for our country, President Johnson said that through this law &#8220;the bells of freedom ring out a little louder.&#8221; That is the promise of America. Over the sounds of hatred and chaos, over the din of grief and anger, we can still hear those ideals &#8212; even when they are faint, even when some would try to drown them out. At our best we seek to make sure those ideals can be heard and felt by Americans everywhere. And that work did not end in 1968. It certainly does not end today. But because of the efforts of the folks in this room &#8212; particularly those family members who are standing behind me &#8212; we can be proud that that bell rings even louder now and each day grows louder still.</p></blockquote>
<p>I cribbed those from <a href="http://www.outcomebuffalo.com/hatecrimesigning-1028-20099239010.htm">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Revisiting Ralph</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In my younger years, I carried Ralph Waldo Emerson in very high esteem. This was before my conversion to Unitarian Universalism. In fact, a friend of mine, whom I carried in very high esteem, spoke highly of RWE and lent me a copy of some essays to read.  I was instantly hooked. I&#8217;ve kept copies [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my younger years, I carried Ralph Waldo Emerson in very high esteem. This was before my conversion to Unitarian Universalism. In fact, a friend of mine, whom I carried in very high esteem, spoke highly of RWE and lent me a copy of some essays to read.  I was instantly hooked. I&#8217;ve kept copies of his essays since then. </p>
<p>I suppose one of the reasons I was so attracted to him was that he had a heroic and optimistic view of life that didn&#8217;t seem (to me) tarnished by naivety, romanticism, or sentimentalism.  In other words, through his eyes life could truly be grand, and <em>I could believe that was true</em>.</p>
<p>So, anyway&#8230; I&#8217;ve sampled his writing on this blog before, and I&#8217;m about to do it again.  The idea this time is to hear whether it is still believable.  Tell me what you think. From The Poet:</p>
<blockquote><p>Those who are esteemed umpires of taste, are often persons knowledge of admired pictures or sculptures, and have an inclination for whatever is elegant; but if you inquire whether they are beautiful souls, and whether their own acts are like fair pictures, you learn that they are selfish and sensual. Their cultivation is local, as if you should rub a log of dry wood in one spot to produce fire, all the rest remaining cold. Their knowledge of the fine arts is some study of rules and particulars, or some limited judgment of color or form, which is exercised for amusement or for show. It is a proof of the shallowness of the doctrine of beauty, as it lies in the minds of our amateurs, that men seem to have lost the perception of the instant dependence of form upon soul. There is no doctrine of forms in our philosophy. We were put into our bodies, as fire is put into a pan, to be carried about; but there is no accurate adjustment between the spirit and the organ, much less is the latter the germination of the former. So in regard to other forms, the intellectual men do not believe in any essential dependence of the material world on thought and volition. Theologians think it a pretty air-castle to talk of the spiritual meaning of a ship or a cloud, of a city or a contract, but they prefer to come again to the solid ground of historical evidence; and even the poets are contented with a civil and conformed manner of living, and to write poems from the fancy, at a safe distance from their own experience. But the highest minds of the world have never ceased to explore the double meaning, or, shall I say, the quadruple, or the centuple, or much more manifold meaning, of every sensuous fact: Orpheus, Empedocles, Heraclitus, Plato, Plutarch, Dante, Swedenborg, and the masters of sculpture, picture, and poetry. For we are not pans and barrows, nor even porters of the fire and torch-bearers, but children of the fire, made of it, and only the same divinity transmuted, and at two or three removes, when we know least about it. And this hidden truth, that the fountains whence all this river of Time, and its creatures, floweth, are intrinsically ideal and beautiful, draws us to the consideration of the nature and functions of the Poet, or the man of Beauty, to the means and materials he uses, and to the general aspect of the art in the present time.</p>
<p>The breadth of the problem is great, for the poet is representative. He stands among partial men for the complete man, and apprises us not of his wealth, but of the common-wealth. The young man reveres men of genius, because, to speak truly, they are more himself than he is. They receive of the soul as he also receives, but they more. Nature enhances her beauty, to the eye of loving men, from their belief that the poet is beholding her shows at the same time. He is isolated among his contemporaries, by truth and by his art, but with this consolation in his pursuits, that they will draw all men sooner or later. For all men live by truth, and stand in need of expression. In love, in art, in avarice, in politics, in labor, in games, we study to utter our painful secret. The man is only half himself, the other half is his expression.</p>
<p>Notwithstanding this necessity to be published, adequate expression is rare. I know not how it is that we need an interpreter; but the great majority of men seem to be minors, who have not yet come into possession of their own, or mutes, who cannot report the conversation they have had with nature. There is no man who does not anticipate a supersensual utility in the sun, and stars, earth, and water. These stand and wait to render him a peculiar service. But there is some obstruction, or some excess of phlegm in our constitution, which does not suffer them to yield the due effect. Too feeble fall the impressions of nature on us to make us artists. Every touch should thrill. Every man should be so much an artist, that he could report in conversation what had befallen him. Yet, in our experience, the rays or appulses have sufficient force to arrive at the senses, but not enough to reach the quick, and compel the reproduction of themselves in speech. The poet is the person in whom these powers are in balance, the man without impediment, who sees and handles that which others dream of, traverses the whole scale of experience, and is representative of man, in virtue of being the largest power to receive and to impart.</p></blockquote>
<p>Frankly, I&#8217;m not sure I can still believe. </p>
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		<title>Except Gambling is Immoral</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I like Ed&#8217;s offer&#8230; It&#8217;d be nice if those making noises about the hate crime bill would put their money where there mouth is.  If they sincerely believe that the hate crimes bill will be used to stifle the kind of hate speech* that is de rigeur from evangelical ministers from the pulpit, then why [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like Ed&#8217;s offer&#8230; It&#8217;d be nice if those making noises about the hate crime bill would <a href="http://scienceblogs.com/dispatches/2009/10/betting_with_barber.php">put their money where there mouth is</a>.  If they sincerely believe that the hate crimes bill will be used to stifle the kind of hate speech* that is <em>de rigeur</em> from evangelical ministers from the pulpit, then why not pony up &#038; prove it?  If they don&#8217;t really believe it, what&#8217;s the purpose of their agitation? Trying to keep a foot on the neck of the gay? Or just trying to create phony outrage to get sympathy for their cause, and maybe sucker some well-intentioned conservative Christians out of their hard-earned cash? </p>
<p>I favor the hate-crimes expansion &#8211; it&#8217;s not exactly the right policy, but it is not unjust toward hate-criminals, and it does better than nothing at recognizing and trying to stop systematic victimization of certain classes of minorities.  I&#8217;m conflicted about passing it as part of a military appropriation.  In fact, I dislike that method of doing business in Congress altogether. But that&#8217;s another story. </p>
<p>*No, it isn&#8217;t usually really &#8220;hate speech&#8221; that preachers agitating against gays are involved in.  It&#8217;s not far removed from it, though. The excuse of &#8220;just preaching the Bible&#8221; is mainly B.S. While a harmonized Bible <i>does</i> seem to forbid homosexuality (depending on how you harmonize &#8220;the Bible&#8221;, that being an extremely tricky task in the first place), it absolutely does *not* require the kind of pulpit-driven jihad against homosexuality that we see today. That, as with other forms of intolerance probably comes from &#8211; I regret the cliche, but &#8211; ignorance more than &#8220;hate&#8221;&#8230; It isn&#8217;t that most preachers hate gays &#8211; it&#8217;s just that they don&#8217;t care enough about them as people to be very reflective or caring about how they approach the topic, or very diligent to be sure what they say is the best and truest account of things &#8211; even though they know that gay people generally feel hurt and put-down by what they do say. The result is that their speech toward and about gays is justifiably received as hateful. Unfortunately, the few preachers &#8211; even theologically conservative ones &#8211; who *do* go the extra mile to be caring and loving toward gay people get painted as &#8220;liberals&#8221; and exist on the fringes of their denominations.  But none of this matters.  The law is about hate <em>crimes</em>.  Hate <em>speech</em>, and other intemperate forms of speech, are still protected by the first amendment.</p>
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		<title>Frederic the poet</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Frederic. That&#8217;s the middle name of a poet/songwriter who I believe belongs in the very top class of those so engaged. </p>
<p>He has Bob Dylan&#8217;s skill with building thoughts, feelings, and pictures out of words, rhyme and cadence &#8211; but his voice is gorgeous and his musical skill matches his poetry.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Frederic. That&#8217;s the middle name of a poet/songwriter who I believe belongs in the very top class of those so engaged. </p>
<p>He has Bob Dylan&#8217;s skill with building thoughts, feelings, and pictures out of words, rhyme and cadence &#8211; but his voice is gorgeous and his musical skill matches his poetry.</p>
<p>His father used a stage name the same as the school principle or superintendent when I was a kid (yeah &#8211; I forget which). I can tell you without giving it away &#8211; Lee Sims. </p>
<p>His view of the world is romantic but doesn&#8217;t cross the threshold of maudlin or sticky sweet. Most of the time. </p>
<p>He is capable of making political commentary without being small or crass. Most of the time. </p>
<p>Who else occupies this top tier of poets and singer-songwriters?  Besides Dylan, I can think of Leonard Cohen&#8230; maybe Paul McCartney or John Lennon (or both, or neither)&#8230; Joni Mitchell? Roger Waters? I don&#8217;t know. But I do think that this fellow &#8230; or maybe John Denver&#8230; is the most underrated of the bunch. And, in terms of longevity &#8211; he may have outlasted all of them.</p>
<p>I want to thank Jesse B for the new trax that got me listening &#038; thinking about Paul Simon again. So &#8211; yeah &#8211; you probably won&#8217;t read this, but thank you.  </p>
<p>And a sample of my new favorite sticky sweet from Paul Frederic Simon&#8230; forgive the music video &#8211; it&#8217;s how do you call it? Lame&#8230; and forgive the static &#8211; I didn&#8217;t upload this one&#8230;</p>
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<p>Oh yeah, oh yeah&#8230; One more.  One more to show some of the depth beyond the sweet. If you want vid, you&#8217;ll have to watch this kid lipsynching a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=soP7i1GYzrc">reasonble cover of it</a>.  You&#8217;ll miss the real treat from Simon&#8217;s recording, though&#8230; that&#8217;s the trumpet bridge. Tres sweet. The lyrics are fine by themselves&#8230; All-caps are not lyrics &#8211; they introduce characters&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>LAZARUS<br />
A passenger traveling quietly conceals himself<br />
With a magazine and a sleepless pillow<br />
Over the crest of the mountain the moon begins its climb<br />
And he wakes to find he&#8217;s in rolling farmland</p>
<p>The farmer sleeps against his wife<br />
He wonders what their life must be<br />
A Trailways bus is heading south<br />
Into Washington, D.C.</p>
<p>A mother and child, the baby maybe two months old<br />
Prepare themselves for sleep and feeding.<br />
The shadow of the Capitol dome slides across his face<br />
And his heart is racing with the urge to freedom.</p>
<p>The father motionless as stone,<br />
A shepherd resting with his flock,<br />
The Trailways bus is turning west-<br />
Dallas via Little Rock.</p>
<p>WAHZINAK<br />
O my darling, darling Sal<br />
The desert moon is my witness.<br />
I&#8217;ve no money to come East,<br />
But I know you&#8217;ll soon be here</p>
<p>LAZARUS<br />
We pull into downtown Dallas by the side of the Grassy Knoll<br />
Where the leader fell and a town was broken.<br />
Away from the feel and flow of life for so many years<br />
He hears music playing and Spanish spoken</p>
<p>The border patrol outside of Tucson boarded the bus</p>
<p>BORDER PATROLMAN<br />
Any aliens here? You better check with us,<br />
How about you son?<br />
You look like you got Spanish blood.<br />
Do you &#8216;Habla Ingles,&#8217; am I understood?</p>
<p>SAL<br />
Yes, I am an alien, from Mars.<br />
I come to earth from outer space.<br />
And if I traveled my whole life<br />
You guys would still be on my case<br />
You guys would still be on my case</p>
<p>LAZARUS<br />
But he can&#8217;t leave his fears behind,<br />
He recalls each fatal thrust<br />
The screams carried by the wind,<br />
Phantom figures in the dust<br />
Phantom figures in the dust<br />
Phantom figures in the dust.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Crazy Pool Winner</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Alright &#8211; every one that bet on &#8220;It&#8217;s already happened, you idiot&#8221;, come collect your prize.  You can also have the 2:1 payout on the Not Michelle Bachman&#8230; as far as I know the only nationally elected official to advance the euthanasia trope in July was Virginia Foxx of NC:
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright &#8211; every one that bet on &#8220;It&#8217;s already happened, you idiot&#8221;, come collect your prize.  You can also have the 2:1 payout on the Not Michelle Bachman&#8230; as far as I know the only nationally elected official to advance the euthanasia trope in July was Virginia Foxx of NC:<br />
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<p>So Kudos to Rep. Fox for heading up the crazy train&#8230;. </p>
<p>Weirdly, Sarah Palin <a href="http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2009/08/palin-paints-picture-of-obama-death-panel-giving-thumbs-down-to-trig.html">wasn&#8217;t far behind</a>, and Michelle Bachman appears to be just itching to work in a &#8220;Death Panel&#8221; reference of her own.</p>
<p><a href="http://blogs.tnr.com/tnr/blogs/the_treatment/archive/2009/08/08/have-you-no-decency.aspx">More</a>.<br />
And, <a href="http://obsidianwings.blogs.com/obsidian_wings/2009/08/its-evil-alright.html">more</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Via Post Politics, a statement from the TN Libertarian Party on marriage:</p>
<p>[...] Same-sex couples face numerous federal policies of discrimination, ranging from the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy to gender-based tax penalties. The Defense of Marriage Act, passed by a Republican Congress and signed by Democrat Bill Clinton, denies federal recognition to same-sex marriages. The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Via <a href="http://politics.nashvillepost.com/2009/05/21/full-marriage-freedom/">Post Politics</a>, a <a href="http://www.lptn.org/blog/?p=1210">statement from the TN Libertarian Party on marriage</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>[...] Same-sex couples face numerous federal policies of discrimination, ranging from the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy to gender-based tax penalties. The Defense of Marriage Act, passed by a Republican Congress and signed by Democrat Bill Clinton, denies federal recognition to same-sex marriages. The Libertarian Party’s platform calls for change, asserting that “[s]exual orientation, preference, gender, or gender identity should have no impact on the rights of individuals by government, such as in current marriage, child custody, adoption, immigration or military service laws.”</p>
<p>“My gay clients, even those in states that permit same-sex marriage, pay higher federal income taxes,” says Less Antman, a CPA and former Libertarian Party candidate for State Treasurer of California. “They can’t freely mix assets without risking a violation of US gift tax laws, they’re limited in their ability to inherit from each other tax-free, they’re subjected to immigration restrictions not applied to heterosexual couples, and if they move to another state they may even find their marriages legally nullified.”</p>
<p>“As the fight for marriage freedom proceeds in the states, it’s imperative that we repeal DOMA and enforce the Constitution’s full faith and credit clause to protect the marriages of those who travel or relocate across the nation,” says Phillies.<strong> “It’s time for Washington, DC to get radically pro-family.”</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>What I like best about this is that it re-claims the term &#8220;pro-family&#8221; from the anti-gay activists who use it in a most Orwellian fashion.  I think it really is time for DC, and the rest of us to get radically pro-family. </p>
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